The body can learn to protect.
Stress and traumatic experiences can be associated with feeling on guard, easily startled, unable to relax, or physically activated through rapid breathing, shaking, sleep disruption and other body reactions.1
Some women describe this as bracing, holding, armouring, stored stress, or feeling disconnected from the body. These words can express a real lived experience.
The phrase “the body keeps the score” can be a meaningful way to describe how past experiences may continue to shape body reactions. Science has not established one single mechanism that explains how emotion, memory, muscle tension, body sensation, and touch interact. HUMAN does not force every experience into one theory.